tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post1112338402254439827..comments2023-09-18T05:20:04.380-07:00Comments on PABLOg!: Funeral For RealThe Pablove Foundationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09033665285054064069noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-69100826886713956732009-07-08T23:13:13.353-07:002009-07-08T23:13:13.353-07:00Sending love and light to Pablo on his journey and...Sending love and light to Pablo on his journey and to your whole family for the path ahead. We don't know each other but have mutual friends. I lost my son shortly after his birth a few months ago and admire your strength and loving connection with your beautiful boy.Roy Ashennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-27803872964318628712009-07-02T12:18:38.608-07:002009-07-02T12:18:38.608-07:00you were all in my dreams last night, in laughter ...you were all in my dreams last night, in laughter and joy. thank you for sharing Pablo's love with us all yesterday.I am forever grateful.<br />love, jessjessica brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01004268864768983053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-90801633201397704572009-07-02T09:38:59.615-07:002009-07-02T09:38:59.615-07:00I'm sorry it's taken me so long to leave a...I'm sorry it's taken me so long to leave a comment...my mind, heart and soul have been swimming in confusion still trying to absorb what has happened! Needless to say, I am still in shock and my mind is just now processing how this all happened is such a short period of time. I am beyond sad. I am beyond hurt and devasted. But through the tears I still smile. I spent some time looking back at all the photos taken and posted on this blog after its initial birth. In so many of the smiles and facial expressions of Pablo with his beautiful bald little head, I saw glimpses of my daughter Sicily. So now when she looks at me a certain way and gives me a special smile, I will also see Pablo. At least a couple of people in Oklahoma will never forget this incredible human being who once graced the earth with his presence. In April, Sicily and I attended the funeral of a six-year-old little girl who we became very fond of while being treated inpatient together at our local Children's Hospital. On the back of the program from the funeral was typed this sweet poem. It's the only way I can make heads or tails or sense out of why a child would ever have to have a funeral of their own. I wanted to share it with you in hopes it may provide even the tiniest glimer of peace! It's written by Edgar A. Guest.<br /> A Child Loaned<br />"I'll lend you for a little time<br />A child fo Mine," He said,<br />"For you to love while he lives<br />and mourn for when he's dead.<br />It may be six or seven years<br />Or twenty-two or three,<br />But will you, till I call him back,<br />Take care of him for me?<br />He'll bring his charms to gladden you,<br />And should his stay be brief,<br />You'll have his lovely memories<br />As solace for your grief.<br />I cannot promise he will stay,<br />Since all from Earth return,<br />But there are lessons taught down there<br />I want this child to learn.<br />I've looked this wide world over<br />In my search for teachers true,<br />And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,<br />I have selected you;<br />Now will you give him all your love,<br />Not think the labor vain,<br />Nor hate Me when I come to call<br />And take him back again?<br />I fancied that I heard them say,<br />"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,<br />For all the joy Thy child shall bring,<br />The risk of grief we'll run. <br />We'll shelter him with tenderness, We'll love him while we may,<br />And for the happiness we've known,<br />Forever grateful stay<br />But should the angels call for him<br />Much sooner than we planned,<br />We'll brave the bitter grief that comes<br />And try to understand."<br /><br />Though you as parents, Jeff and JoAnn, gave Pablo life through birth...he, in a sense, gave you life, as well. And to the rest of us who were fortunate enough to share and observe his life from a distance through the wonders of a computer screen! Because of Pablo, we can appreciate life, laugh at life and enjoy life so much more than if we had never known about him. I can perfectly visualize him in heaven right now...he is an Angel! And I will dissolve the misconception that all Angels where white feathered wings and marabou hallows...some are dressed in black and white striped shirts and bicycle helmet clad heads! And when they smile, they proudly show their missing teeth! ; ) That is my vision! I will continue to lift you all up in prayer, now and forever more! And thank you from the bottom of our hearts for allowing us on this journey. You've been a big help! <br /><br />All our love,<br />Sicily and her mommy, Kerry<br />and the rest of the Zeka clan!Kerry Zeka in Oklahomanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-58075841182396383192009-07-02T09:19:19.534-07:002009-07-02T09:19:19.534-07:00Grady, what an impressive young man, you did not n...Grady, what an impressive young man, you did not need an early education on how tough life can be but Pablo will help you and be there for you throughout your life! Jo Ann what a mother, we can all see the strong foundation you laid out in the kids! And Jeff I was so privileged to have been part of the service yesterday and more so of shaking your hand and saying "you don't know me but.." After the service I had to run home, share the love with my family and tell them about Pablo and get on my bike, wear the velo clothing and ride up that hill behind the cemetary that Pablo loved. I got to the curve with the view of Pablo's beautiful resting place and prayed, cried, thought of you and reassured Pablo that each time I pass that curve I will pray and tell him to be happy, not to be scared.<br /><br />That road should be renamed "PABLO's WAY'!! Also just a thought, when my brother was sick with cancer at the hospital I made a nice book of all the blog comments and gave to the close family members......<br /><br /><br />Anyway thank you for allowing us all to share and I hope to ride with you soon at Velo in memory of and with Pablo.<br /><br />Be strong.<br /><br />MauriceMauricenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-76414919886138017722009-07-02T09:07:14.232-07:002009-07-02T09:07:14.232-07:00I never had the blessing of meeting Pablo, but kno...I never had the blessing of meeting Pablo, but know how proud Pat & Harry are to have him in their life. Following PABLOg! has brought tears, laughter (looking at that amazing smile), and inspiration that I could not have gained from anyone else. We are thinking about all of you as you celebrate Pablo's life.<br />xo, <br />Amanda Bass<br />Houston, TXAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-25692007246180988332009-07-02T08:09:58.224-07:002009-07-02T08:09:58.224-07:00Our family continues to keep you in our prayers, w...Our family continues to keep you in our prayers, wishing you all strength and clarity, light and most of all love as you proceed on your journey with your little Pablo. Our hearts are full..... the kavanaugh'sAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-45223551473303441522009-07-01T22:54:32.996-07:002009-07-01T22:54:32.996-07:00Not ever gone
Just moved on
Wishing you comfort
A...Not ever gone<br />Just moved on<br /><br />Wishing you comfort<br />At this sorrowful time!<br /><br />Love, peace and blessings to you,<br />Heike, Isbjorn & SkadieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-19125983754524120502009-07-01T22:02:07.805-07:002009-07-01T22:02:07.805-07:00Sending love and prayers your way, Jeff, Jo Ann an...Sending love and prayers your way, Jeff, Jo Ann and Grady. Especially this night. Rest with Pablo's love and know that love and light are coming to you from all over the planet this evening.<br /><br />peace,<br />a motherAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-3031906701237261672009-07-01T20:44:15.712-07:002009-07-01T20:44:15.712-07:00Jeff, Jo, Grady and PABLO!...you have changed our ...Jeff, Jo, Grady and PABLO!...you have changed our lives with your open hearts and passion for each other. We have been in awe of your strength and by sharing your pain and your search for meaning through this unfathomable time....you have taught us all about the true meaning of love. We love and admire you. Pablo...rest in peace. You are in our hearts little dude.jeff suhyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18365543889408631923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-33468944222896945522009-07-01T20:34:31.709-07:002009-07-01T20:34:31.709-07:00Jeff, Jo Ann and Grady –
We just came across the...Jeff, Jo Ann and Grady – <br /><br />We just came across the pablog link and our hearts just sank. We had the pleasure of sharing a home with your family on Lake Winnipesaukee at Pete & Brie’s wedding. Even at just 3 years old Pablo filled that house with life, laughter and love. What an amazing child – our hearts break for you. We will forever remember Pablo, the beautiful little boy with the curls and smile in his eyes. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you. <br /><br />With Love,<br />Darren, Katie, Maggie & Joshua FrancekAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-23220398949305908702009-07-01T20:14:06.138-07:002009-07-01T20:14:06.138-07:00Candles were lit in honor of P this aft @ St. Alph...Candles were lit in honor of P this aft @ St. Alphonsus church, Greendale WI. LOVE to all of you on this sad day of celebration. P is with Uncle Scott now. Who better?<br /><br />xo angela & fam (mke)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-26638496426625183572009-07-01T17:54:01.864-07:002009-07-01T17:54:01.864-07:00A candle was lit at St. Patrick's Cathedral to...A candle was lit at St. Patrick's Cathedral today for Pablo.<br /><br />love and peace to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-5060300530383027342009-07-01T17:37:05.086-07:002009-07-01T17:37:05.086-07:00I am so upset not to be there today. I am thinkin...I am so upset not to be there today. I am thinking of you and I know that what has taken place in Pablo's honor was profound and beautiful. You are in the hearts of hundreds right now.<br /><br />Love Jen RhodesJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11934832056438373426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-28180685219854183792009-07-01T17:12:22.988-07:002009-07-01T17:12:22.988-07:00The only real thing is LOVE. Thank you all, for y...The only real thing is LOVE. Thank you all, for your gifts of LOVE, and for sharing it all with so many of us. Look at the gifts Pablo keeps sharing.....Carolyn, Jasper, and Rosie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-23806294347873156512009-07-01T16:01:20.392-07:002009-07-01T16:01:20.392-07:00sending my love and prayers to you
i am sad i was ...sending my love and prayers to you<br />i am sad i was unable to share your p-love memorial with you <br />it sounded perfectly fitting and beautiful<br />i hope i see you soon<br />big love<br /><br />x<br /><br />bellabellanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-3315860622984786512009-07-01T15:18:52.131-07:002009-07-01T15:18:52.131-07:00Sending all our love to Pablo, Jeff, Jo Ann and Gr...Sending all our love to Pablo, Jeff, Jo Ann and Grady. What a beautiful spirit.<br />Love and Blessings,<br />Linda grandma to MickenzieLindanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-12995105332668275082009-07-01T14:50:21.553-07:002009-07-01T14:50:21.553-07:00I have been hearing from everyone that the memoria...I have been hearing from everyone that the memorial was such an amazing celebration of Pablo's life. The love in your family is truly a great and beautiful force. Thinking of you all today with prayers and love. . . .Marianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-38939122979932119032009-07-01T13:50:19.921-07:002009-07-01T13:50:19.921-07:00We've never met and probably never will. I fo...We've never met and probably never will. I found your blog while blog surfing. Thank you for sharing Pablo with us. My heart breaks for a little boy I never knew until he was gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.SurlyGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06279676811062704293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-43908255521645157902009-07-01T13:17:51.028-07:002009-07-01T13:17:51.028-07:00Not only was the service last night wonderful, but...Not only was the service last night wonderful, but you all, and especially you, Jeff, honor Pablo with your writing. You have a gift with words, that not only makes your love and pain apparent, but makes P's joy, life, love, and specialness apparent.<br /><br />Keep writing, please. It will do your heart good, and will keep P alive for us.SteveAudiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10819494804427922815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-19820404777903294242009-07-01T13:07:53.397-07:002009-07-01T13:07:53.397-07:00My heart and thoughts have been with Pablo all day...My heart and thoughts have been with Pablo all day. I'm thinking of him in the small things too. When I felt pain running - I ran harder and longer when I thought of all Pablo had endured (endured with a smile on his face, nonetheless!). Thank you all for sharing this journey with us and please continue to. Pablo will always be alive in our hearts and minds and watching down on us all.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01333464146359267113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-44104141903469630652009-07-01T13:00:28.169-07:002009-07-01T13:00:28.169-07:00I'm so sorry this day has come and for your fa...I'm so sorry this day has come and for your family having to endure this very "real" experience. Your willingness to share these experiences with us in such an open, honest way is inspiring. You have an amazing family and it is easy to see why Pablo has had such a positive influence on so many people. I'm convinced Pablo is greatful for such a wonderful family that will continue to carry on his legacy of love. You guys are amazing and my thoughts and prayers are with you.chadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-66915602079516373172009-07-01T12:29:06.034-07:002009-07-01T12:29:06.034-07:00Remember ..it's not goodbye, it's till we ...Remember ..it's not goodbye, it's till we meet again. Pablo is love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-48376632018168184182009-07-01T12:25:21.956-07:002009-07-01T12:25:21.956-07:00We are with you in spirit and sending all the love...We are with you in spirit and sending all the love and light your way for this most difficult day. Give P hugs and kisses from us. Although we never met him, we love him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-55897293042302214662009-07-01T12:09:46.924-07:002009-07-01T12:09:46.924-07:00we have never meet but jb ask us to surpport her f...we have never meet but jb ask us to surpport her for the charity when she done the trianthlone last year i read your blog every day i hope you are all strong for each other on this day we will all cotinue to raise funds for chla hospitalAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6621529041443323750.post-57469839562625557972009-07-01T12:06:55.711-07:002009-07-01T12:06:55.711-07:00We are thinking and praying for your family on thi...We are thinking and praying for your family on this special day. <br /><br />Molly and Laney Böttcher<br />(Wilm's family)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com